Feelings are funny things. You can make a well-informed decision for all the right reasons with all the best counsel, but if you have "funny" feelings about it, you doubt yourself. Major life changes, such as (ahem) moving are particularly apt to evoke such feelings of insecurity.

The bad thing is that nothing guarantees the feelings will go away. No five step process of self-esteem boosting will make you feel settled.

The good thing is that I'm not all feelings. My (really, really, really, incredibly) intelligent brain can overrule my doubting feelings.

And chocolate can make you feel good about anything....